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I say Goddamn, Face Book is WAY TOO fucking colorful theses days. I might as well throw my two cents in and piss a few people off at the Negative NIlly who is actually just a realist.

First off congratulations you guys have ONE less thing the government tells us we can’t do. Fuck, no matter what you believe that’s about a Goddamn victory for everybody. 😀 Way to go U.S. for finally giving in a little you cheap bastards and allowing everybody to share in the same business transaction you endorse instead of just Group A. That said, you do realize that was all it was EVER really about right? Do you really think a bunch of big wig politicians with a hidden taste for prostitutes and thievery was ever taking a MORAL STANCE against gay marriage? NO my friends that was JUST what the right wingers were telling the bible thumpers to keep the election funds coming in. You see the U.S. government has NEVER given a FUCK about who you LOVE or who you HATE. What they did give a fuck about was whenever you filed your W-2 whether or not you marked it SINGLE which allowed them to take more and give back less, or MARRIED which made them take less and give more back. 😀 The CONTROL of who could legally marry and who could not was never about belief, it was JUST BUSINESS. Oh and the whole Love WINS thing, it was just a tactical trade off for the government also recently deciding to once again try to erase a part of our history that covered a war that killed more Americans than any other over a Survey says…. Church shooting. WOW so like THE BIGGEST opposition, to gay marriage JUST got hit, in a fashion that draws attention to the RACE FACTOR, making folks jump up down and call for TAKING DOWN A FLAG, right BEFORE THIS MILESTONE decision gets passed by appointed officials, NOT elected ones. This had JACK SHIT to do with LOVE winning anything. Just as, if the Civil War was truly fought for the RIGHT REASON African Americans wouldn’t have STILL been fighting to be treated like everyone one else well over a century after the final shot was fired. Not saying it isn’t a win, just cautioning not to read TOO much into it being ALL ABOUT LOVE AND PROGRESS.

Now I’m HAPPY for you, but I am NOT celebrating this, NOT out of hate, but rather out of experience. I’ve been down that isle once already, it proved ONCE TOO MANY. I simply DO NOT believe in marriage PERIOD. I do not believe that it is a necessary step for COMMITMENT, commitment is being able to leave at any time and CHOOSING not to. The moment you see it is necessary, you limit the value of that bond to a ring and a piece of paper that allows the government all up in your personal shit. That’s another thing, yeah Welcome to our world guys. You just went from having the government tell you, you couldn’t do something to having them all over you for paper work to LEGALLY DOCUMENT your union. Now what does it mean to have the U. S. government in your personal union? Well it’s the polar opposite of what you had to face before being allowed to marry, NOW if you decide you can’t be with the person you are with, it’s A LOT harder to get away. That’s why you can get married in an hour but if you are LUCKY, a divorce will only take a month.

Well that’s just too early to even think about that, we were just finally allowed to get married. 😀 Yeah, that’s me, THE REALIST. In a perfect world you will show us ALL HOW IT IS DONE RIGHT. Honestly I hope you DO. HOPE, but I know better, I’ve seen enough gay couples to know that they are indeed JUST LIKE EVERYONE ELSE. So here is what’s going to happen A SHARP increase in marriages, which will temporarily decrease the divorce percentage over all. A couple, three years tops and then it will start making it’s way right back to where it is NOW and then INCREASE there after. That’s just life, that’s PEOPLE, especially PEOPLE in the fast paced American culture, where no matter your sex, race, sexual orientation, so many have grown up in an age where it is ALL ABOUT INSTANT GRATIFICATION. But, but, this is about LOVE. I HOPE so, I hope that all this fighting for the RIGHT to be allowed to do something you were NEVER ALLOWED to do before has not OVERSHADOWED the very CORE REASON for fighting for it in the first place. I HOPE, but I also DOUBT. I see, well most people as equal, those who I don’t EARN IT through lack of character. I simply DO NOT have the FAITH in people in general to believe otherwise. Love wins, only when it’s ENOUGH but it NEVER IS, is it? – Love BIG CAT

Excuse me may have your attention please. The gloves are off now readers, don’t believe me, read the next 3 posts. 😀 Thank You. – BIG CAT

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Sweetest-tales.blogspot.com Gave it a 9 And Wrote: Unique site which pairs its design and content well, even with guest writers. Emotional and genuine writing style which really shows how passionate you are about what you write. .

 

Scraggman.wordpress.com Gave it a 10 and had this to say: Personal blog that is entertaining and thought provoking, and sometimes sad. Well-designed and easy to navigate. Nice work..

 

Affordablewebdesignva.com Gave our site a 10 and wrote: Good design and more importantly, unique and interesting content. Had intended to do a quick scan of your site, but before I knew it, I had been there for over 30 minutes. As someone who knows first hand how big of a bitch divorce can be, I’m glad things are looking up. Have bookmarked your site to come back and read more later :).

 

riorita.etsy.com Gave us a 10 and wrote: Beautiful aesthetic blog site. Shayne is very talented in his honest descriptions. If many more people were like him, the world would have been a better place..

 

Payspree.com/34181/buyhere gave it a 10 and wrote: Job well done BIG CAT! I enjoyed reading your musings. I think the strong point of your site is the ability to show us that even though we might get knocked down, we can get back up. We must get back up, and continue on. I appreciate your honesty, and the strength that comes from your integrity. It will be interesting to visit your blog from time to time to see the direction that you take. I almost forgot to tell you that I am a Star Wars lover too! You have an interesting take on that saga. Keep on healing, and keep on writing. Keep on keeping on..

 

As a writer I am always glad to see my work reach people on a level that really makes them think and feel. OH SHIT!! It just dawned on me that I’m a hypocrite, I guess I really do care about what others think. HA HA There is that honesty again. 😀 THANK YOU ALL for your continued support and don’t think that because the narrative of the last year is done that I haven’t been holding back because the gloves will be coming off shortly. As for the rest of the readers I do urge you to take a look at the sites that gave these reviews, tell them BIG CAT sent you. I will be posting more of these reviews over time on my Twitter account @Unspokenethic Swing by and follow us there you’ll find it easy to access if you scroll down my page, it’s to the right of my entries. Also go check out linkreferral.com as that is where these reviews have come from they have been a huge help in getting traffic through here. Again thank you all, keep stopping by new stuff is coming. – Love BIG CAT